I have a Thanksgiving birthday & Kai is a Christmas baby. So for the next month we will be asking for the gift of Equality.
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A 2015 memory from my retired Facebook page. I used to post to a small group of friends was than a ten or so)… I hadn’t made the pronoun shift as you can tell, but I believe it’s important to share the whole journey.
This picture of 3 yr old Kai hangs on my bulletin board. As with most photos of Kai before I understood and my heart changed, I couldn’t share it on social media with the rest of the photos from our family photo session. No matter how many filter apps or how much cropping… No matter the masculine clothes or the haircut… as I always say, Kai has always been Kai. I am the one in this photo who transitioned.
Kai was 2 years and 9 months old when I posted this.
So many things make sense now…
*Children know their gender between ages 2 to 4. You’ll find this well documented in psychology.
Kai knew that her gender and my gender were the same… since everyone used “boy” in reference to her she assumed we were both boys.
This is a photo a friend had shared of Kai at Lakewood Church (Joel Osteen Ministries) at 21 months old.
I was still using her first name, JosephPaul, which means “humble teacher”. I believe the calling on her life is far more than I had ever imagined… and sure looks different too.
Note to self: Never put God in a box, Kimberly.
Three years old. The boots were her “heels”, the pirates hat had her long hair, and she nearly always had on a hanger which she pretended was the sides of her dress (think princess ball gown).
This was “boy enough” to not get punished for “acting girly”.
So much she had to learn to avoid and navigate just to feel like herself at such a young age. What a smart, beautiful baby.